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Spending 14 more years cost me having children. My wife has children and I love them like me own but man I should have left.
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Needing advice.
Texas fan in Georgia replied to Texas fan in Georgia's topic in On Texas Football Forum
I can relate to the should’ve left after 3 years part. We’ve been together 8 total years and it’s never been perfect. I can’t say I regret the relationship bc that’d mean I regret my son, he’s the only good thing to come of it. But I always tried to put the kids and their happiness first. My parents weren’t together at all and I always told myself I wouldn’t put my future kid in that situation and that they wouldn’t grow up with a broken household but some things are out of our control. - Yesterday
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I learned this the hard way. It’s really easy to get married and incredibly hard to divorce. I spent seventeen years (for better or worse) in a marriage I should have left after year three. I always wanted my marriage to be my only marriage. The process is hard but it does get better. I know it’s not something that will make you feel better now, but better days are ahead. Don’t worry about meeting somebody else. Find a way to make yourself happy on your own. Don’t let a relationship define your happiness. The joy comes when you aren’t looking for someone else and then bam you meet somebody. And that somebody will make you want to say thank you to your soon to be ex-wife.