TheRoJoShow Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago 13 minutes ago, Guts said: Lol we can agree to disagree here. 20 is not a child. Idk why what I said struck such a nerve with you to react so vehemently. If what is being implied is true, he skipped out on practice and a scrimmage due to immaturity. That shows a lack of character and idc if that makes you “sick”. Grow up. That’s rich on so many fronts. First of all you’re conflating competitiveness with character. And second, 20 is absolutely still a kid, hence “good kid.” If you think I need to “grow up” for calling out people dogging on kids that can’t even have a beer legally yet, then that’s for you to reconcile within yourself. 1 Quote
Guts Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago 2 minutes ago, TheRoJoShow said: That’s rich on so many fronts. First of all you’re conflating competitiveness with character. And second, 20 is absolutely still a kid, hence “good kid.” If you think I need to “grow up” for calling out people dogging on kids that can’t even have a beer legally yet, then that’s for you to reconcile within yourself. Look if you give up on your team because you aren’t first team then that is very much a character/egotistical issue. I’m not sure how removed from 20 you are, but they are adults and should be held accountable. Also, If we are using age legality as an example, they are legally allowed to die for our country, which is a bit more adult than drinking a beer. 1 Quote
Alex Butler Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago 1 minute ago, Guts said: Look if you give up on your team because you aren’t first team then that is very much a character/egotistical issue. I’m not sure how removed from 20 you are, but they are adults and should be held accountable. Also, If we are using age legality as an example, they are legally allowed to die for our country, which is a bit more adult than drinking a beer. The point is that we don’t know that he actually gave up on this team as you’re insinuating. All other accounts have been very positive on him I’ll go with that. If he’s struggling the answer is not to dog him and act like we have any idea what’s actually happening with him. 1 1 Quote
Guts Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago 2 minutes ago, Alex Butler said: The point is that we don’t know that he actually gave up on this team as you’re insinuating. All other accounts have been very positive on him I’ll go with that. If he’s struggling the answer is not to dog him and act like we have any idea what’s actually happening with him. Yes I know I even stated in my original comment that was only applying to if this were true. Quote
Oldest Horn Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago 4 minutes ago, Guts said: Look if you give up on your team because you aren’t first team then that is very much a character/egotistical issue. I’m not sure how removed from 20 you are, but they are adults and should be held accountable. Also, If we are using age legality as an example, they are legally allowed to die for our country, which is a bit more adult than drinking a beer. The drinking age was lowered in the 70s to compensate for this “injustice” DUIs and fatal accidents from them skyrocketed. Care for a repeat. Quote
TheRoJoShow Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago (edited) 8 minutes ago, Guts said: Look if you give up on your team because you aren’t first team then that is very much a character/egotistical issue. I’m not sure how removed from 20 you are, but they are adults and should be held accountable. Also, If we are using age legality as an example, they are legally allowed to die for our country, which is a bit more adult than drinking a beer. I think you’ve identified a societal issue there. And you’re literally calling him a kid and adult within the same interaction, so clearly you’re conflicted on it. I’m 38. Everyone has a different journey and different makeup. I take issue when “fans” imply someone is either not a good kid or lacks character when they have literally zero idea who he/she really is and what ultimately drove him/her to a decision to act in a certain way. Edited 2 hours ago by TheRoJoShow Quote
Guts Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago 1 minute ago, TheRoJoShow said: I think you’ve identified a societal issue there. And you’re literally calling him a kid and adult within the same interaction, so clearly you’re conflicted on it. I’m 38. Everyone has a different journey and different makeup. I take issue when “fans” imply someone is either not a good kid or lacks character when they have literally zero idea who he/she really is and what ultimately drove him/her to a decision to act in a certain way. I was replying to a different comment that said he thought he was a good kid, and I simply said if he quits after adversity (if that is indeed the case) then he’s not quite a good kid. I think you’re making this was more of an issue than it is. Quote
Guts Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago 4 minutes ago, Oldest Horn said: The drinking age was lowered in the 70s to compensate for this “injustice” DUIs and fatal accidents from them skyrocketed. Care for a repeat. Dude I do not care about that. I was talking about the absurdity of using drinking age as an indicator of maturity. Quote
TheRoJoShow Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago (edited) 1 minute ago, Guts said: I was replying to a different comment that said he thought he was a good kid, and I simply said if he quits after adversity (if that is indeed the case) then he’s not quite a good kid. I think you’re making this was more of an issue than it is. Let’s just hope you don’t think that if your son or daughter quits after adversity. Edited 2 hours ago by TheRoJoShow 1 Quote
Oldest Horn Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago 2 minutes ago, Guts said: Dude I do not care about that. I was talking about the absurdity of using drinking age as an indicator of maturity. I’d say the stats suggest 21 is a better indicator of maturity than 17. Quote
Guts Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago Just now, TheRoJoShow said: Let’s just hope you don’t think that if your son or daughter quits after adversity. Depends on the context. I would have a conversation with them if it was something similar to this. Like Alex said, we don’t even know if it is the case. If it is, it shows a lack of character. If it’s not the case, then it’s a non-issue. Quote
MBHORNSFAN Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago 21 minutes ago, TheRoJoShow said: That’s rich on so many fronts. First of all you’re conflating competitiveness with character. And second, 20 is absolutely still a kid, hence “good kid.” If you think I need to “grow up” for calling out people dogging on kids that can’t even have a beer legally yet, then that’s for you to reconcile within yourself. He is being paid six figures to practice and play. Either show up or GTFO. 6 1 Quote
TheRoJoShow Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago Just now, Guts said: Depends on the context. I would have a conversation with them if it was something similar to this. Like Alex said, we don’t even know if it is the case. If it is, it shows a lack of character. If it’s not the case, then it’s a non-issue. You would tell them they’re not quite a good kid? Yikes Quote
TheRoJoShow Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago 1 minute ago, MBHORNSFAN said: He is being paid six figures to practice and play. Either show up or GTFO. Can always count on you for reasonable takes 1 1 Quote
Colby TS Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago (edited) Does Coach Top coach Tyanthony Smith outside of Texas? The reason I ask is that he posted a cryptic message today. If not, any idea what this could be about? Edited 2 hours ago by Colby TS Quote
MBHORNSFAN Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago 2 minutes ago, TheRoJoShow said: Can always count on you for reasonable takes You are trying to justify a player skipping practice because he is unhappy over playing time. Yeah. I'm unreasonable. LOL 2 Quote
Guts Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago 1 minute ago, TheRoJoShow said: You would tell them they’re not quite a good kid? Yikes Rojo no one will take you seriously if you keep making obtuse counterpoints. Instead of being stuck on the “good kid” aspect, focus on the character issues. I would talk to them about integrity and the importance of keeping your word. Quote
Oldest Horn Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago 2 minutes ago, MBHORNSFAN said: You are trying to justify a player skipping practice because he is unhappy over playing time. Yeah. I'm unreasonable. LOL Did he skip practice? I didn’t read that. Quote
Guts Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago 8 minutes ago, Oldest Horn said: I’d say the stats suggest 21 is a better indicator of maturity than 17. Ok? The person in question is 20. Quote
Oldest Horn Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago 2 minutes ago, Guts said: Rojo no one will take you seriously if you keep making obtuse counterpoints. Instead of being stuck on the “good kid” aspect, focus on the character issues. I would talk to them about integrity and the importance of keeping your word. The “character” issues will reveal themselves over time. But not yet. Quote
Oldest Horn Posted 2 hours ago Posted 2 hours ago 1 minute ago, Guts said: Ok? The person in question is 20. Correct. Not even drinking age. Quote
Here for the Wins Posted 1 hour ago Posted 1 hour ago 4 minutes ago, Guts said: Rojo no one will take you seriously if you keep making obtuse counterpoints. Instead of being stuck on the “good kid” aspect, focus on the character issues. I would talk to them about integrity and the importance of keeping your word. And if some other party failed to keep their word? Say regarding playing time? 1 Quote
Guts Posted 1 hour ago Posted 1 hour ago 2 minutes ago, Oldest Horn said: The “character” issues will reveal themselves over time. But not yet. Yes I know. I stated a hypothetical and then got in an argument. Quote
TheRoJoShow Posted 1 hour ago Posted 1 hour ago Just now, Guts said: Rojo no one will take you seriously if you keep making obtuse counterpoints. Instead of being stuck on the “good kid” aspect, focus on the character issues. I would talk to them about integrity and the importance of keeping your word. You literally said he’s not quite a good kid if he quits after adversity. I’m just taking you at your word. We have no idea what he’s been promised by prior coaches, what his family is telling him, what pressures are going on at home, if he struggles mentally, etc. Things don’t happen in a vacuum. You can address character issues with your own son as you’d actually know him. You can’t diagnose character concerns with someone you don’t know is my point. We can be bummed as fans that he may leave the team, but questioning his makeup is unfair. Quote
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